Monday, October 8, 2012

Not A Lot To Say

I really don't have a lot to say...

I signed Boston up for water babies classes at the Y. I'm super excited about them. I think he'll have fun. He's such a mimic I'm sure he'll do exactly what the instructer says. Scott wants to be involved in it to so I told him he can get in the pool with him a couple times. Course, whether or not Boston 'allows' that is up in the air.

My sister is about to pop. Can't wait for the new baby! I can't wait to hear the name! She's going to be small like Presley but hopefully she wont be quite as grouchy :) They moved into their new house in Pothead Circle! HAHA! I'm sure they'll be having big get togethers once the baby comes and they get a little more settled. Super close to Saylorville so if they ever want to take Scott's boat out I'm sure he'd let them. :)

It has been 39 days since I've had any contact with Jon and 52 days since he's seen his child. (No I don't count them every day, I look at my calendar). I'm having an issue in regards to Christmas again. If this continues, Jon not seeing Boston, until Christmas time, should I let him take him to Fargo for Christmas? I say no...but, legally...since it is 'his holiday' this year, I think I might have to. I'm going to have to contact my lawyer because I really think its a bad idea and just plain wrong. If need be I will meet up with Anna in Minneapolis so the kids can spend time together. Other than that, Jon and his parents are perfectly capable of making a trip or getting in contact with me to make it happen. But not seeing your son for 4 months and then suddenly whisking him off to a different state, with people he doesn't even know? Just doesn't sit well with me. There has to be some kind of 'neglect' clause in there somewhere.

My dad and sister jumped out of a plane this weekend for my dad's 60th birthday. I wish I had the money to do it, it would be amazing!

Scott and I are doing really well. We have our differences and we have our arguements but for some reason we're really good at talking through them...or just agreeing to disagree. Which I say a lot because there are some issues I can get heated about and I don't want to get angry with him about it. Aside from the age difference we're a lot alike. He keeps suggesting me moving in with him but I just tell him no. One because I have a lease. It's my first place, by myself and I need to have this part of my life before I can make the next step again. Two, I'm not ready. I think it would be a stupid move to make at this point and it would blow up in my face and I'm not going to go through all that BS again. I've made that mistake before and I like to think that I learn from my mistakes (sometimes). Plus, I don't want to change Boston's world again. I love my little house, its perfect for us and I don't want to leave it. Three, he's done this before also so I'm a little skeptical of all of it.

Anyways, I really wish I had internet at my house (another reason Scott thinks I should move in, cuz he has internet lol) He'll find any excuse, really. But I want it because I want to finished Boston's Shutterfly book and so I can post pictures on here too.

I should probably get back to work...

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